This is a question for evangelical and fundamental Christians?

You need to hear the bad news about your spiritual state, of where you stand before a Holy God first. People dont like to be confronted with their sin. The gospel will do that, but the good news is, you can do something about it. Jesus took your sin and gave you life. You would be a fool to reject God's gift of salvation. Examine yourself and be honest, your sin is offensive to God. The amazing fact is God loves you and wants you to be saved. I dont like being told when I do something wrong, pride is deadly and many perish because of it.